Showing posts with label advice to son. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice to son. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

There is no substitute for hard work

Most humans want to be successful. It's very hard to find someone who says - I just want to be a failure. Even those who claim to be wanting to fail are actually secretly wanting to succeed - just that they never come out and say that out loud for the fear that they might fail.

Success is not easy. Gordon Gekko says in the movie Wall Street "for a lack of better word, greed is good". You have got to be greedy to be successful and the only constructive way to act on your greed is to work hard. There are only 3 kinds of people who can be successful in life:
John McEnroe was one of the most if not the most intelligent tennis player who ever played. He was not a hard working guy but he compensated for that by being smart. Ivan Lendl was not not smart but he worked very hard without getting tired and achieved huge success in tennis. But it is Roger Federer who is both smart and worked very hard and became the dominant player for a long period of time winning the most grand slam events. All of these guys were successful but when you look at who was successful and numero uno for how long, you will realize that Roger followed by Ivan followed by John was the order in which they achieved and maintained success over a period of time.

What this shows is that smart and hard working attitude is better than hard working attitude which is better than just being smart. Even if you are smart, you have to work hard to achieve and maintain success. Smart people come and go, are flashy, appear on the scene for a short period of time but then fade away. They are like the shooting stars but smart and hard working people are like the real stars.

so when I say this that there is no substitute for hard work - please don't argue or try to reason out - because guess what - you can argue and try to reason out all you want - there is no way around hard work - that's just a law of life. Accept it, embrace it, don't fight it and keep working at whatever that you want to pursue.

Follow your passion, you are smart, continue being smart and work very very hard at whatever you want to achieve. There is just no shortcut through the jungle of life. Work at it, work hard, work smart and the success will be yours.

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Hope is the fuel of life

Humans are emotional animals - well so are most other animals. But what makes humans special is that our brain has evolved to be able to have multiple emotions, correlate those emotions, put them together and create a complete picture. One of those emotions is HOPE. Hope is a very powerful positive word.

Hope has a positive connotation too. Hope drives humans to get going. Hope makes us look forward to something. Hope gets us excited. Hope is the basic ingredient in motivation. Hope makes us take the positive steps in the right direction. Hope makes things possible. Hope plays a strong role in innovation. It was the hope of exploring moon that made man motivated and start working towards the moon landing. Hope of making an electric bulb motivated Edison to look for ways of creating a bulb that changed our lives forever. It was the hope of finding a better solution to web searching that resulted in Sergey Brin and Larry Page finding better web searching algorithms and found Google which changed how we interact with the web completely.

Hope also makes you look for positive things and positive outcomes in life and allows you to look beyond the failures and the immediate barriers that you see in the road.

Take hope out and there is nothing left in human life. Without hope there is nothing to look forward to. Without hope, life becomes hopeless, generates lack of motivation, and makes life dark and bleak. If you don't have hope, you don't have anything to look forward to, nothing to get excited about, nothing to motivate you, and without the excitement and motivation there is no moving forward, no progress. Going to moon was never going to be easy and if we had lost hope at the fatal Apollo 1 accident - we would have never made an attempt, Apollo 11 would have never happened. It was hope that allowed us to continue on our path for moon exploration.

So never loose hope.

Hope gets us
Excited which makes us
Love and become passionate which generates
Positive thinking.